This is going to be a long process...

OK, me, don't get downhearted because you're off to a slow start. You've just had a reminder that one of the lessons you need to learn is that you can't let the needs of others distract you from your own. It's okay to tell people you can't help them if it interferes with what you're trying to accomplish. Don't beat yourself up about it. Everyone who knows you knows without a doubt that if they really need your help, you'll be there. You have to let people handle their own small stuff or you'll never get your own big stuff done. Now go -- breathe, live, love, laugh, learn, and come back when you're a bit more centered. You can't figure it all out at once, right? Right.